I have five under age kids husband sold everythinh hid the incom not paying child support or elomny

i have five under age kids husband sold everythinh hid the incom not paying child support or elomny married 16 yrs no income took care of my kids for almost two yrs he took a low income job to prove no incom .my lawer not helping can%26#039;t efford to pay him.what to do plz some body guide me.case been in court for almost a year nothing happing.my x didn;t pay credit cards no morgae for almost 6 months no home in few months .he says he have money but will not write on papers my lawer backing up i have no idea what to do cause my x showing no incom i make more money than him ans my name in nothing no home no credit card no buisness and my x says if i don%26#039;t back off i have to pay half of his debts

I have five under age kids husband sold everythinh hid the incom not paying child support or elomny married 1

Sometimes all you can do is cut your loses. You can also hire a private detective to find things out to take to court and show the judge. will help...other then that....all you can do is walk away with no money from x.

I have five under age kids husband sold everythinh hid the incom not paying child support or elomny married 1

Contact ur local child support agency, it would be a start even if its minimal child support it would be something rather then nothing then u could take him to court later, if u can prove his income prior to the c/s issue, u may stand a chance of having it modified around what he use to make, either way even if he has to make minimal payments, making minimal income, he will eventually need to step it up..

Get as much proof as u can of property he sold and what he got for it.. when u go in front of a judge, which he will eventually have to do in order to get the divorce, u plead ur case with as much proof that u can to show his wrong doings, he will have to pay u half of everything he sold..

I have five under age kids husband sold everythinh hid the incom not paying child support or elomny married 1

i think it really depends on who has the kids, i don%26#039;t know why, but by reading this, i suppose you have the kids. Well, he has to pay child support. He doesn%26#039;t exactly have a choice. I guess you%26#039;re going to have to go back to court to sort this out, because this isn%26#039;t fair to you or you%26#039;re children. He left the kids, he should have to pay for them and support them no matter what. This man is the lowest any man can be. What man can threaten his ex-wife like that and not pay child support? Doesn%26#039;t he love his children, and even if he doesn%26#039;t, does he really want them to end up like them? This is why it is so hard to trust men.

I have five under age kids husband sold everythinh hid the incom not paying child support or elomny married 1

don%26#039;t you have a court order or domestic relations order that automatically deducts child support from his paycheck? See legal aid in your county or go yo local domestic relations office. you don%26#039;t have to pay any credit in his name only - he%26#039;s just trying to scare you.

I have five under age kids husband sold everythinh hid the incom not paying child support or elomny married 1

Why in your other questions your English is clear and understandable and here you%26#039;re impossible to read or understand.

I have five under age kids husband sold everythinh hid the incom not paying child support or elomny married 1

You need to see your lawyer or go to Legal Aid in your town if you can%26#039;t afford a lawyer.

I have five under age kids husband sold everythinh hid the incom not paying child support or elomny married 1

You let yourself be vulnerable during your marriage by not making sure your name was on everything. This causes problems in situations like this.

If you think he has money, then you need to find out where the money is. If he has a bunch of debts that collectors are calling on, it may be that he has no money because he spent it. You must have reasons to think he has money, so think about those reasons and see if you can find anything.

If you have children, he has to pay child support. It doesn%26#039;t matter if he doesn%26#039;t have any job -- if you have the children all the time, then he has to pay it.

I would suggest that you see if you can find an attorney that speaks whatever language your native language is if possible, because part of your issue could be communication. You may also want to let the divorce go through as it stands. Then, when he gets a better job go after more child support.

I have five under age kids husband sold everythinh hid the incom not paying child support or elomny married 1

It is a bit difficult to understand everything here, but if you are still living with your husband and all this is going on, maybe your best bet would be to take the kids and leave him. Even with your job, you would qualify with social services for food stamps, subsidized housing (they may even pay the rent for you), health insurance for the kids, etc. If your own personal debt is high, you might have to consider filing bankruptcy. If you can and want to, file for divorce from husband. That should earn you a lot more, including child support and earned income tax credit which is a good chunk of $$ at tax time, esp. with 5 kids. Make sure you legally are not responsible for his debts and bills. Contact social services and see what all your options and benefits will be.

I have five under age kids husband sold everythinh hid the incom not paying child support or elomny married 1

find a pro bono lawyer,one for free or less then others.you can show proof of him working by getting someone to take pictures of him at his work site.if your name wasnt on any of the bills he owes make sure your lawyer knows this,and see how he can get credit without any income.get a tape recorder and tape all calls with him.kinda snicker when you are talking to him and say what would you do if i were recording you because i am,still laughing.as long as he has been told(but doesnt believe you would record him)you can hold everything aganist him in court.put the mike up to your ear piece when talking to him and get him rilled up so he will say all you need to get him.my ex played this game and said he was only getting 50 a week from working with his dad,judge made him pay a little a week any way.you will also be able to make him sell the house even if its not in your name and he will have to give you half of that.or he keeps it and pays you half of the value.

I have five under age kids husband sold everythinh hid the incom not paying child support or elomny married 1

To all those who wonder about the non-clarity of this posting.. stress can do alot to the mind but when you add anger, frustration and pure helplessness...it can be overwhelming. My brother works for support enforcement. Some postings are right. You can go to children%26#039;s services or Family services and request that your husband pay. Tell them the whole story. A dead-beat dad is a dead-beat Dad. They will force the support and if he refuses to pay it%26#039;s JAIL TIME. Judges do not care if you can%26#039;t afford to pay..they will tell you to get another low-paying job to supplement. As far as his bills if they are in his name they are his in most states. However, the bills that he racked up since you split up (you need proof of date he moved out) are his and his alone. He can push the issue that he owns half the house if you are not divorced and the judge will either award the house to you and him the payments, or they will decide how much it is worth and make you pay half the equity or if its paid off..half the worth of the house. Don%26#039;t take his threats...he can always be found through creditors, social security, IRS and the list goes on.. including the internet. Me, I would post a picture of him on the internet even if I had to open up a site called DEAD BEAT DADS and warn women of his past, obligations and irregularities. I would also post the town he resides in and where he works then ask %26quot;Do you know if this man works anywhere but (list his current employer)%26quot;. Of course I am one who believe in fulfilling one%26#039;s obligations even to children. When I was in the service overseas my ex had my children because of his sickly parents and I paid support. Of course it didn%26#039;t help it came in the mail cause his current wife cashed the money orders and never told anyone about them. I didn%26#039;t know there was a problem till my son said something at the age of 25. I had to show him the copies of the money orders and he showed his Dad. Crap hit the fan then he-he